E-Dumped
Like I said, maybe I’m overanalyzing it. I’ll say this. Were trying to make plans to get together. However, my work schedule is kind of crazy this week. I should add that he’s not working at this point. He’s thinking that we’ll get together after I get off a closing shift, which is really too late anyhow. Here’s the skinny. Guys, listen up. Because this is important. If you really like us, even though your schedule may be tight as hell, or you have all the free time in the world (and we just simply aren’t that free as you), trying to see us shouldn’t be a problem. Put some effort into it. If you really like us, if you are really interested in us, trying to think outside the box in ways to sneak time with us shouldn’t be a problem. At least that’s my two cents. If he’s really, really interested (and I’m not going to flip through one of those “He’s Just Not That Into You” books for the answer) this isn’t rocket science.
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I think you’re right. If someone wants to see you badly enough, they’ll make the time. Look at the bright side. It’s better that it ends fast, before you make such a substancial investment in the person that you have to re-evaluate yourself as a result. My preference is that a person decides what they want from me as quickly as they feel they’re able, and makes their intentions known. And I try to do the same.
@Jeff,
I hate the feeling of wanting to know someone and he’s just not into it. At least, he was into it at one point in time, just not in the current. Kind of frustrating. When you think you’ve found that guy or gal that is something different, something new and something exciting from everyone else you have once dated– and it just turns out to be a complete dud! Plus, I’d rather find out now than three months from now. The less time I have to waste with a moron the more time I have to spend with someone who actually wants to be with me.